Childcare: solutions according to needs

I just don't understand......woman are the most strongest beings on this earth while men get to walk around with no shirt on. We got to bleed every month and still carry a child. We take care of the whole house hold while he helps with some or all the bills. We have to cook and clean while he takes out trash. We give labor and breastfeed while he runs the streets. (But we even doe,where?)

I have want through domestic violence and me and my 2 year old daughter and unborn child is in a shelter not knowing what to do next don't have no money no way to get appointment trying to get a job trying to put my daughter in daycare is hard to do this with no money no child care no caps no nothing I have been trying to apply for everything as government assistance and now I'm turning into the public for help

Hi ladies, How are y’all working out child care when it’s time for you to return to work? My husband and I do not want our son with either of our parents nor daycare.. we considered me working from home so I can be home with our baby but idk. Any suggestions or advice? Anyone else going through this?

I know I'm messed up for this..so please don't beat me down more than I already feel...just need advice. Real advice! I'm thinking of having an abortion and I'm 19 weeks pregnant. I already have 4 children and the oldest is 18 and youngest is 8, so I will be starting all over again. Which is fine until the father decided to not want to be in the child's life period. But he won't sign over his rights. I been through the inconsistent abandonment issues my children was given from their father's I didn't plan for this to happen to this baby. But once I found out the father is a narcissist to the CORE. And I can't mentally or emotionally spread myself thin again to take care of another child by myself..I don't know what else to do but adoption or abortion. But he won't sign over his rights. I don't want my irresponsibility of getting pregnant to over shadow my responsibility of keeping her..cause it's not her fault. But I never been so torn ? please give advice. Has anyone ever got an abortion during they second trimester? If so please give advice on that in my inbox thank u

Moms moms moms I thought you guys said it gets easier as they get biggerthis is just ghetto having a baby is ghetto breast-feeding is ghetto. Child care is ghetto, working is ghetto. don’t come for me I’m just trying to be funny right now because I’m just overwhelmed with this. ?

Hope everyone else is okay and doing well. With that being said I'm not okay. I recently told my boss that I'll have to stay-at-home for awhile. Reason being is that I don't really trust anyone to watch my child and not sure if I would be able to afford child care. Also, I love my job and I love what I do, but I'm still processing of being a first time mom and I know that my daughter comes first before anything else. Like I know I need to make money, but I have to make sure my daughter is taken care of first. I just wanna know if anyone else is in a similar situation or any advice I could use right now. ???? Please and thank you

Dear Lord, Take care as you form this child inside me. Thank you for the gift of life. I look forward to the smiles and laughter that will come. Breathe health into my baby’s life. Let each little body part be formed according to your will. May this child be strong but not too strong willed. May my little one sleep well and bring joy to our family. This child is in your care and protection. Help me trust this precious one to you. ?

So me and my baby father are having some issues of me needing help to take care of a child that it took two to raise. Well I asked him if he could give me some money to help buy some clothes and medicine for the baby since hes starting to teeth and he sends me $35. Like an I not wrong to be a lil mad at this??

Mom to a beautiful 9 month old boy; i adore him but also loosing my mind lately!! Sensory overload and getting impatient with my patience ? any tips? Im practically a stay at home mom, i work a shift once every 2-3 weeks. My bf works (sometimes) to let me stay home but i do everything from cleaning to child care to managing finances. Im going crazyyy

Any moms out there on suboxone? Have you given birth? And how was it? I don’t see many posts about this. Honestly I’m really scared about NAS. Ive been in recovery since last feb and I think people forget how recent that is. I’ve almost completely quit cigarettes but been vape as an alternative. Anyone else vape? I’m in the process of trying to quit but it’s so hard please no negative comments I could be relapsing on much worse and my doctor is proud of the success I’ve made thus far. I hate the comments people make like if you care for your child you wouldn’t harm it. It’s like I’ve not cared about my body for so long and I’m trying I’m really trying. Addiction is no joke :/