Mommas! PSA: I have seen so many woman on here struggling about the father not wanting it, wasn't ready or isn't supportive. This makes me sad BUT Let's get a couple things straight. This whole fear of the man not being there and their excuses. PATHETIC!
#1 They weren't ready to have kids yet but they have no issue having sex with you unprotected.?♀️(make it make sense)
#2 Don't want the baby- Fuck him. God blessed you with that beautiful human you are carrying. Forget what they say. Remember that child is HALF of you be proud. Let them just miss those wonderful milestones. First laugh, smile, crawl, walk, talk, first words "mom"! You embrace those moments. Your child will seem like perfection.
#3 - I can't do this alone- being pregnant and a mother is not easy. You will have ups and downs BUT you are important once you see that you will see that with your baby. Men can drag you down all they want but only YOU know what you can and can't do.
#4- being a single parent- Hard, Tiring, yet so REWARDING. If the child's father doesn't want to be there so be it. They'll have to answer eventually. YOU do/did it remember that. Embrace that pride!
#5 Find Support- it is never easy doing it by yourself or with someone. Make sure you have your resources that is the most important thing. Pay attention to your body, Ask questions, grieve, reach out.
THERE IS SOMEONE WHO CARES!
Love you all! You got this.
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