WeMoms
25 Jul 2022

Growing up with an absent father

Your child only sees his dad from time to time and you wonder what consequences this may have on the construction of his identity? We take stock.

  • In order to blossom serenely, your child needs a stable framework.
  • If his father is absent or not very present emotionally, this can sometimes generate a feeling of insecurity in your child.
  • It's not your job to take on both roles, because you risk developing a fusional relationship with your child.
  • To fill the void created by the absence of his father, your child can get closer to another male figure in your environment, with whom he can identify: an uncle, a grandfather, a stepfather...

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Dela'Sha
20 May 2022

It was really hurt when you feel like you going to be doing this alone. I sent my baby father my tissue this morning with the spotting, I got a little concern and I still haven’t heard from yet and I never wanted to be a baby mother, but he be seeing all this stuff but the actions is showing differently, I’m 15 wks and 4 days and I’ve been doing it alone, haven’t came to one ultrasound yet nor any of the emergency ultrasounds, it hurts, especially when he still love the person ? I LOVE MY BABY SOOO MUCH ??, but I hope my baby don’t have an absent father, like I do ?

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Amanda
I wouldn't let it bother me or get me down. if he chose not to be a part of your experience that's his loss .You and baby will be fine regardless. Things always get better?
20 May 2022

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Faith
I'm sorry he has made you feel so alone in one of whats supposed to be the happiest times of your life Just know he will soon realize these are times he can't get back and you won't have that guilt just give it to GOD and let him correct him it'll work out I promise
20 May 2022

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