All about the father-son relationship

So y’all, quick vent... So basically my ex (child’s father) of 2 years just finalized our relationship because he said for the past week it’s been arguments and he didn’t feel respected or heard. I felt so bad because naturally I would want to be my mans peace and his feelings mean everything to me, my hormones been out of thwack from the stress, discomfort and anxiety . So I apologize, acknowledged my wrong doing, and said I would work on it and to please be patient with me. I pleaded with him cause I also wanted my son to have a chance of growing up in a two parent household. Long story short, he said that he’s not a one woman’s man and the only way we’d get back together is if I allow him to sleep with multiple women and I can’t get behind that and he knew from the start I was strictly monogamous. I told him in the past that my worst fear is becoming a single mother (I even opted for an abortion if he felt like this was going to be the case) and I feel like he used that to his advantage to try and fulfill his sick fantasy. He picked having multiple women over ensuring our son the best future. And for that I lost all respect for him. He decided to lay this on me 2 weeks before I have to give birth and just when I felt all that needed to be done is to prepare for the arrival of my son, I have to worry about how I’m going to make it through as a single mother.

So my baby father is mentally and physically abusive and won’t let me leave the relationship he came to my home assaulted me and took my phone for a whole day and then left me there with no car no phone or anything until this morning he came and forced me to have sex with him and he could possibly have a std knowing that I’m pregnant with his child he does not love me or my child but don’t want to let me go what should I do I feel trapped every time I tell him I’m done he slaps me or threatens my life ? ?I’m hurting I don’t want to be here anymore I’m only going on because of my child ? I’m trying not to kill my self and fight but every day is a battle

I'm kinda mad but not really I don't have the best relationship with my mother at all but she was able to help make sure her granddaughters eat I'm low on food and I'm still looking for a job I do receive food stamps at the time but won't have anything until next Wednesday I'm grateful my mother was able to help without down talking me for once I just want a normal relationship with my mother like everyone else but there are some things I feel my mother and I need to work on in order to make our relationship work ???‍♀️I feel like a asshole bc I haven't talked to her since I put .y daughter father our for what he did to me she's upset I didn't get him arrested bc he raped me and I'm just happy honestly he's out of my house and out of my life ?I feel better now that I got that off my chest I can go to bed and sleep peacefully I didn't tell many people bc I know what people will say I'm at peace knowing I don't have to walk on eggshells in my own home with my children

Hi moms out there. I’m currently 12 weeks and 4 days pregnant but still having mixed emotions about having a baby. I’m in a great relationship with the father and I tried to be excited and happy about the pregnancy but nothing has changed and idk what todo. Is this normal? Will this feeling go away? He knows about this and it’s causing so much fighting which is making this so much harder to overcome. Am I wrong to think these things? And then one day be happy about the pregnancy then the next not really knowing what I want?

I have a story you mommies on here n I need some good feed back. My story is that I was in a good relationship for 2 years wen I told him I was pregnant w my son. My so father wanted me to get abortion but I don't believe in that. My son father denied my son and didn't want to help w my son. So I been on my own raising my son by myself. My son father put his hands on me in front of my son n kept saying my son was not his. I did cheat n took care of my son and home. My son father choked me out to the point I couldn't breathe. I put my son father on a straining order and child support. Now this man was to see my son n this man have not been in my son life n can't even buy milk or pack of diapers for my son. My son is 4 years old and I been raising my son by myself and I took my son to every single doctor appointment and school and birthdays n trips. I'm the only parent my has n I take good care of my son. My son is my world n soul. I will protect my son no matter what..

I'm in this space in life where I'm very proud of myself. I know this is my first pregnancy that I'm caring to fullterm. I've had three miscarriages before while being in an abusive relationship. I'm pregnant now feeling peaceful and I'm growing even though the father isn't around. It's like I'm living in the opposite spectrums. I really don't know how far I am. I start showing in the matter of weeks once I knew that I was pregnant and gained my belly weight. I've been alone in pregnancy I'm glad I found this app

Hey moms , i need a little advice , me nd my childs father aint been on the best of terms nd he decided tht he doesn’t want to be in a relationship . Its been hard for me being i feel he got me pregnant just to make me a single mom & i feel he doesn’t want a real because he wants to do what he wants to . Idk what to do …. I try to fix things i make it known i want my family but its like he dont understand that people go thru stuff its up to us to fix the problem. I see people wit their family and get discouraged because i feel i cant be how other ppl are…. Idk … any advice on what my next steps should be ?

I am 4 months pregnant my baby father is in a relationship with two female rights now he don't call or text . I feel lonely I cry every night . I just lost my job because I didn't have transportation I was walking to walk everyday I don't want to have my baby by myself but I think I have to at this moment

Sooo the father of my child and I were together off and on for 5 years, things were rocky in our relationship and we broke up, a couple weeks later I found out I was pregnant, he was both verbally and physically abusive towards me and tried to kill me, and basically said he wanted me to have an abortion, so I ran away and told him I got an abortion when I was about 2-3 months pregnant, obviously I lied, I don't believe in killing babies, now I'm 32 weeks and he doesn't know he has a baby on the way, I think about calling him sometimes, idk what to do