What education to choose for the only child?

Rant: I don’t like pregnancy.. haven’t in the beginning don’t now, don’t think I ever will.. “you’re going to miss it” no I won’t! “They all say that” yeah well I’m serious.. when I say this is the only child I want I’m not joking… she has enough cousins I cannot! I’ve felt most symptoms and most of them don’t feel good.. From puking day in day out To terrible migraines everyday To bad back pain and cramps To anxiety because I haven’t felt a kick in what I think is a timely manner to My stomach growing so big I feel like a fat cow To lighting crotch and dry skin and aching legs and non stop peeing, and peeing on myself while puking or coughing, & painful kicks and stomach numbness and Charlie horses in my legs, to TERRIBLE HEART BURN, to CONSTIPATION! Oh and having to go to the hospital because she wouldn’t let me keep anything down more than a few times.. (to name a few) yea it can always be worse, yes, I’m great full she’s healthy but as for ME nawww!!! I’m celibate 6 months.. I’m coo! I don’t even want the sex that makes the baby’s anymore ! I am traumatized.. I won’t miss this…

I think my baby going be only child for a long time this pregnancy is complicated here

Coming from someone who struggles daily with severe depression and anxiety and ptsd, pregnancy doesn’t make it go away. It intensifies it by a thousand. Struggling daily about not wanting to be here anymore has only now led to not wanting to be here but wanting to only for this child. It’s begging god for understandance and clarity. It’s asking God why now why give me a child when I can barely take care of my own self as it is. it’s saying you wish you was dead and then instant guilt and regret that only leads to hating myself more because I don’t wanna die because if I do so does this child. It’s a constant battle. So mommas don’t be afraid to reach out to each-other. If you or someone you know battles with depression anxiety and ptsd or anything else, reach out your not alone. If anything I will listen at anytime day or night. Message me. Call me. Ask for my number I know the feeling of being alone

My husband is an only child and I am number 7 of 15 kids my mom had? as soon as I told him how many siblings I have, suddenly he wants a huge family ?? but I’m barely making it through this one pregnancy ?

This is my first and probably only child and I’m having a girl. People keep telling me she will favor (as in like more) her dad over me. Is this true ? ?

Is it common for me to feel sad that my baby wont be a only child anymore. He is so excited for his brother I feel awful that I am consumed with so much anxiety and self doubt

My mom left this earth after I gave birth to my first son he is 6 now and it still feels like yesterday when I got the news ,the pain of being a only child with both mother and father gone never gets easier or better with time it's a void that will never be filled and it's hard to see others with their mom or dad and not feel immediate sadness especially with being pregnant holidays have never been the same but I still try tho and put on a happy face to not ruin it for my babies on top of that I lost my grandma last year to cancer on my daughter's birthday but I keep pushing and knowing God will get me through all the pain I battle inside so thankful for my crew they keep me uplifted and remembering to keep pushing and to stay focused my advice to you beautiful Queens is to be thankful and count your blessings you never know what the next is going through while you complain or be ungrateful embrace what God has brought you through and rejoice in where he is taking you I love you all HAPPY EARLY MOTHERS DAY TO YOU ALL AND YOUR MOMS ?????

So I'm not perfect but I am ? my soon to be baby daddy seems as if I take the sides of my daughters vs my son and nephew all the time mind you the boys are teenagers and my daughters are 9 and 10 he is always going in on the girls and not the boys we are expecting our first and probably only child but at this point I'm having second thoughts about doing this I don't want a child with a man who thinks I'm not gonna step in and correct where your wrong child or adult I'm not apologizing for parenting. I'm so early in this pregnancy and I have had my blood pressure so high this fetal should be dead by now I don't know what to do. Losing my mind over this B's and I want to do what's right but this is just too much

I was told by doctors in 2011 I would never have children. In 2014 I gave birth to my 1st daughter. After 7 years of failure in 2021 my second daughter was born. She turns one in Aug. My 3rd & final baby will be born in Dec of 2022. I don't want to take away from my second Borns first year (as mommy herself is a middle child) so I'm attempting to keep this last birth a surprise til at least her 1st birthday. I'm debating letting her pop up at the end of her party with a shirt that says "middle child like mommy" I have gender reveal baseballs (3 pink & 3 blue) we didn't get to use due to covid for my 2nd born so thinking about setting off 2 pink to represent my first two daughters then a third to tell gender of our 3rd. I don't want to take away from her day but at her party I'll be nearly 6 months pregnant people will see my bump by then. I don't want to rain on her day but I don't want my 3rds announcement stolen either as we had special announcements with the first two. What are your opinions? Would it be wrong to announce at THE END of my 2nds party or just skip the announcement all together and let them see for themselves when I have a belly? ? I have been a momma of an only child for 7 years and as a middle child Its Important to me I make all my babies feel equally loved!