How to calm a crying child?

Had a bad dream woke up covered on sweat.... I was 15 again and I was telling my mom I was pregnant she tried to whoop my ass but I caught the belt and then she started choking me. Then someone called the cops and I got thrown in jail. I had to give birth in jail and then I had to raise my child in jail because nobody would take him. There's more but I just can't type it without crying.

Just had my baby 3 days ago and got home today. Everyone in my baby’s face and want to hold him. I get it your the grandma and uncle and siblings but he’s only 3 days and I didn’t want everyone in my child’s face. Even when he’s sleep they bother him. Like my bf doesn’t respect my decision and I explained multiple times I don’t want everyone around him for like 2 weeks. Even when my baby is asleep he says he has the rest of his life to sleep so he lets them hold him and wake him up and all. I know I can’t be tripping. Now Im crying, where’s the respect? I’m highly pissed and don’t know how to let me frustration go. At the end that’s our child.

Is it right to yell at the mother who is trying to calm her child down,when the baby is crying?