WeMoms
25 Jul 2022

The particularity of the mother-son relationship

As a mom, you are the first woman in your son's life. Here's what you need to know about the mother-son relationship.


  • You've probably heard of the Oedipus complex: between the ages of 2 and 7, a child identifies with the parent of the opposite sex.
  • Your little boy will invest all his love in you.
  • Avoid overprotecting him and encourage him to stand on his own two feet in a caring way.
  • Finding the right balance in your son's love is important for his future relationships.
  • It's the best recipe for preserving that unique and special relationship between you and your son.
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Lena Weir
31 May 2022

Damn heartburn and cramps and my son won't sleep in on position lol hurts like a mother f*cker ???????? #31weekspregnant #7/31/22 #BoyMom #JulySummerBaby #BabyBoy #Baby3lbs+1/4

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Jyasmine
25 May 2022

Me and my babydaddy are currently not together due to his anger issues & his TOXIC mother who has made drama MULTIPLE times, calls me nasty names, and constantly lies to her son about mean things she’s told me over the phone/ in person. My babydaddy is a mommy’s boy and always chooses to take his moms side and defend her and assumes I’m the one lying trying to make drama, I have blocked his mother and him from everything & now continuously harasses me by making fake numbers to get a hold of me to threaten my life, threaten to take me to court, take my son away, call me nasty names and belittle me. It has been almost 2 months now and I am still being told by family members that my baby daddy and his mother are reaching out to my family to try and stir up drama again!! I had been with my babydaddy for 5+ years and ALWAYS had to deal with his toxic mother and her always trying to control me. I am now over and tired of her shit.. They are trying to take me to court when my baby isn’t even here yet, mind you my babydaddy is a active gang member who carry’s a gun and so is his brother in law who also lives in their house. I have made it clear that my son when he’s born will NOT be over to that house because I believe it is not a safe environment, there are gang members in and out of the house and lots of drinking. I told my babydaddy he can come to my house to see his baby whenever he wants but his mother wouldn’t be aloud in my baby’s life for all she has put me through while pregnant and constantly disrespecting me.. I truly believe his mother is mentally unstable and I don’t want that around my son. Any advice?

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Jyasmine
She has made this recent drama because I told her I am not going to live under her roof with her son and that I rather him live with me or us get our OWN space. I truly believe she is jealous of me and just wants to control me and my sons life. She is bitter and mad because I am no longer letting her take advantage of me like she did for the past 5 years… she is a old school Mexican woman and everyone is telling me that’s how they always are
25 May 2022

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Amber
I don’t have any advice but it’s sad that their not seeing the bigger picture and it’s a baby involved! I think no matter what the moms always going to be the one thinking about what’s best for the child and they just worried about control, you’re doing right with keeping your distance. His mom is old and bitter and needs to get her own life
25 May 2022

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Erika
10 May 2022

Hey breast feeding mamas I just had my son 5 days ago and her is so raw on his bottom. My mother says it could be because of my breast milk? Any tips or tricks or advice in general?

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9etherBeing❤️
What’s raw ? The butt?
10 May 2022

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Erika
yes his butt is really raw
10 May 2022

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Passion
6 May 2022

When a man makes promises about their son before he is even born then after he is born none of those promises are followed through it just makes the mother angry and bitter and mad and take their frustration on the son She can be the best mother there is still do her motherly duties but she will complain get frustrated that shes doing it all alone when the father specifically said out his own mouth that when he arrives she don't have to worry about a thing meaning bathing him changing his diaper and most of all potty training him Mother doing all the work while dad does nothing is not fair! I know someone that work two damn jobs and comes home and takes over the night shift so his wife can sleep at night

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Amanda
I had 2 kids what a man that left me when I was 6 months pregnant with the 2nd one .I don't get angry or take it out on my kids because I know that they don't deserve that I. It is not their fault. I'm not judging anyone who does.. but it's just makes me love them more and works twice as hard because I know that I'm all they have❤️??
6 May 2022

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Passion
what i meant by take it out on the kids is being mad and angry while doing mommy duties meaning complaining
6 May 2022

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Sapphire
22 Jan 2022

My son has been very clingy lately to my mother and myself I don't know what to do

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He's seeking comfort. Just love on him. He's only this small once. When he's all grown up, you'll wish he was little and always wanting snuggles again. Is he teething perhaps?
22 Jan 2022

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Sapphire
yeah he is teething
22 Jan 2022

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Mayreli
16 Jan 2022

Well I'm happy with my son and I stressed because I'm new to this thing about how are things of being a mother

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Sandra
I'm here if you want to talk about it , feel free too message me
16 Jan 2022

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Mayreli
o.k thank you for the support ?
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Justice
3 Jan 2022

I'm a first time mother and my son his 3 months and will he his skin look like it's breaking out but it's not bothering him so I don't think it's a rash what is ?? if u know what do I do about it ??

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Angel
Is it all over his body or just his face?
3 Jan 2022

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Justice
Stomach and little on his back n neck
3 Jan 2022

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Katie
29 Dec 2021

I am 19 weeks and still haven’t quit the habit of smoking my e-cigarette. Does anyone else have this problem? I feel like an awful mother and am so scared my son will have birth defects. Any tips on quitting that actually work? I’ve tried many methods and feel helpless because nothing seems to work.

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Lawanda
Im still smoking
29 Dec 2021

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Brianna
I need advice too. I can’t seem to stop smoking nicotine as well.
30 Dec 2021

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Marley
12 Dec 2021

I’m feeling very doubtful in myself being a mother. Lately me and my partner have been arguing so much and I feel like I’m destroying my son… Has anyone gone thru this and have any words to help

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Kirsten
Girl you are definitely not destroying him I know how it feels
12 Dec 2021

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Marley
Ugh thank you…. I try my hardest to keep it away from him but I can’t just get up and walk away it sucks feeling like I’m emotionally destroying him. Dosnt help that everything on google makes me feel even more like shit
12 Dec 2021

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Camryn
5 Dec 2021

I worry about my son sometimes, I don't want him growing up and having severe depression like I did, my mom did, and my mom's birth mother did. It just runs in the family and of course, that's all the women so that's another reason I'm glad I'm having a son, I guess it's just a slightly less chance that he'll have it. I still worry, I don't want him ever feeling the way I've felt in the past. All I can do is make sure he has a happy life, which I just hope I give him

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Diamond
Whoever you pray to will make sure you are covered and you shouldn’t have no worries. I know your blessed. Congratulations and enjoy the mom world your beautiful and so will your son be.
5 Dec 2021

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Camryn
thank you ?
5 Dec 2021

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