The mother-daughter relationship, a unique love story

I need a serious oppinion, I’ve been with my boyfriend for fifteen years we have a twelve year old daughter, I am having our second daughter in November. He has three step sisters and a mother who never liked me from the start but they’ve learned to live with me and know I am not going anywhere. So I asked my bf to ask if they could help me with the shower and by help I mean help set up and maybe go pick the balloons or cake up, I don’t mean I want them to throw anything. I want to be involved this time around last time no one got along and my mom was nervous and all that my mom passed away so I want to be involved, like I want to pick the place and what not and invite my friends . So I started a group message with all of us and said hey guys wondering if u want to get together soon and start planning baby shower. I told them I picked a few venues and waiting to hear back. The mother never responded and the older sister whose always been an asshole to me says Amanda there is plenty of time to call places cus prices always change and usually when someone wants other people to plan something the person isn’t involved. But by all means if u have the money for a venue now go ahead but don’t expect us to help u if your going to pay for it. Like I’m sorry but to me that was so rude. I don’t want them to pay for anything I just wanted help with setting up and putting balloons and decorations up. The mom never responds. The younger sister said what my sister is trying to say is that we will do it for u u sit back and relax. The mom told my bf that they didn’t want one of my best friends to come cus they don’t like her this is my best friend. This is for me and my daughter not them. Then I tell my bf what they said and he’s like Amanda they wanted to surprise u, I told him I appreciate that but I want to invite who I want not who they want and I want to have it where I want to have it. When I had my first it wasn’t enjoyable I want this one to be enjoyable. He’s like why can’t u guys just get along. But it’s not me like I’m not expecting them to throw me anything I want to be involved that’s what I want. If they throw me something none of my friends will be there just who they want and it’s not their party. Am I wrong to feel like this? These people never liked me for whatever reason and it causes fights between me and my bf a lot. Sometimes I feel it will be the end of us cus of them.

the irresponsibility of a parent. this lady had the AUDACITY to bring her child who she knew had the flu to a family dinner, knowing daen well my month old babygirl was going to be there with me. my mother had caught the flu, and now my daughter has tempatures between 99.4 and 100.5. not sure if it's the thermometer, but she keeps throwing up, her tummy is bugging her, and she is not getting as much sleep as she needs. I am beyond furious. the negligence of this lady. yes I brought a newborn to a family dinner, no there were not many people there, yes she brought her sick son, no she did not tell anybody. I have a bone to pick with her, and it's not going to be a pretty sight when I see her next.

Random vent/dilemma: Anyone not have an actual nursery for baby on the way? … I currently live with hubby, his mother and his daughter in a 3 bedroom. So we’re trying to figure how to literally “squeeze” my baby into our room. It’s not impossible but I’ve always envisioned my child with their own nursery/room. I know baby’s don’t need much in the beginning but can’t help but feeling gipped lol or am I being a spoiled brat?! Hubby is in an awkward place trying to accommodate and please 3 women in his life and I don’t want to add unneeded stress but still… I say mom and step daughter share a room while baby gets her nursery?! What you you guys think?! Lol ???

I am not feeling my best because my husband and I live with his brother. We have upstairs and his brother has the basement. He brother said his daughter is going to live with him for the summer and now his mother is there in the house for the summer. I don't like this all I want is peace and quite with my baby. We gotta hurry up and save money so we can get our own place.

My sisters step daughter is 2, and well unfortunately they never brushed her teeth (and her biological mother gives her Soda) so she ended up getting a huge amount of cavities. Her mother decided with the dentist that she should have some caps put in her mouth (she now looks like she has dentures) but anyway since she had to get so much done they put her under anesthesia and when they were done the pour girl came out with a swollen red mouth and a bloody nose. It’s been 2 days since and her top lip is bleeding with multiple cuts and it’s bruised. What did the dentist do to make this happen? Can I sue them for this?

I'm Going To Church Later For Our Mother Daughter Sister And Friends Banquet I Know I Will Feel A Lot Better After That Then Going To Church Sunday Super Excited Can't Wait??

Over barring irresponsible mother in law problems. I came home with my daughter from the hospital and she was automatically asking to take her to sleep with her I said no my boyfriend/ baby daddy worked at the time well in the mornings when he would leave and me and baby were both sleeping she would take her and I would wake up in a huge panic she would allow her sisters to come and grab her even when I was breastfeeding she would allow them to come and snatch her away from me kissing in her talking so loud to wake her up everything I started locking my door she started telling me not to lock my door I still did finally I felt the need to get a voice and tell her not to kiss my baby it took her 9 months to finally stop now she’s bringing random people to the house and treating it like a party house I do not feel comfortable with my daughter staying here am I wrong for being ready to leave ?

I'm 21 and have a daughter she turns one tomorrow and I recently found out I'm pregnant again I grew up without a mother figure in my life and honestly still don't know what I'm doing as a mom let alone a mother to another on the way any tips are helpful

Hello mommies i am davin new to this group/app i am a mother of 2 girls and now expecting with baby number 3 but forth pregnancy we had one miscarry befor our second daughter but i am due may 26th but induced on the 19th of may this will be the last one preying for a boi

I'm a new mother and no matter what I do I feel like my daughter deserves someone better than me .