Concerns of the father-to-be

So I stay with my mom now that I'm pregnant and going to be a single mom. Which I'm more than ok with. If the father decides to be in this little girls life after he does the paternity test, that's great and I won't stop him. If not, oh well, and I'm not going after child support. So anyways, I am going to be sharing the room for a while with my little girl. Well she's not even here yet and she's already taken over my room lmao!! I have no more wall space for anything. But I love it!! It's so cute seeing everything out together and ready for her arrival. Not mention, my baby shower is in a month!! Lmao so there will be soooo much more stuff coming in. Pics in the comments

Fathers should have a say in what happens to their child as in if y’all keep it, abort it, or give it up I’ll say it again. FATHERS SHOULD HAVE A SAY IN WHAT HAPPENS TO THEIR CHILD! I hate these women who sit there and have unprotected sex, get pregnant and just have no shits what the father wants. That child is just as much his at it is hers. You expect him to be father enough when you want him to pay for shit if you keep the baby so why is he not father enough to have a say? And no I’m not judging this is simply how I feel.

I always hurt within because the father of the child doesn’t want to be responsible ?I want my child to have a father who will be there for her

So the father of my child is choosing not to be a father & is threatening me now if I don’t get an abortion & I’m just like you can lay down with me but can’t take the heat afterwards & your older then me with a child already I offered him to sign his rights over but he wanted to be an A** & blocked me but everything is in text and he sent me an audio

Hi I'm new here but this has been bothering me and stressing me out. My last period was Jan 7. I had sex with my ex the 16th. A few weeks later I ended up having sex on Feb 6 with another guy. Took a test Feb 13 and was positive. I'm due Oct 14. The first guy has to be the father right?

I wanted to share this because I’m seeing a lot of soon to be moms that are going through a lot. I only knew the father of my soon to be baby for a little over a month before I got pregnant and things aren’t what I expected at all. just know I’m here if anyone wants to talk because it’s rough out here, But we are not alone ?

this is embarrassing but i need advice, or insight lol. so i just found out on the 26th that im pregnant. i havent had a doctor appt yet, i have it on the 5th so next week. anyways theres 2 possible fathers. one from the 22nd of november, and one from the 27th of november. my last period was somewhere around nov 11th-13th. my periods usually last 3-4 days. i’ve been with the guy from the 22nd several times and never gotten pregnant. and the guy from the 27th only once (but 2 rounds, lol) and all of a sudden im pregnant. the guy from the 27th is super sweet, ive told him already that im pregnant and it could possibly be his, and he’s called me everyday since i told him to check up on me. he also recently just lost his father, so i thought it’s ironic that he finds out he could be bringing a baby in to the world right after. the guy from the 22nd is not at all who i want to be the father. he doesnt know that im pregnant but hes already had his words about me & the baby after me telling him that there was a possibility that i was pregnant. also the last time we were together, wasn’t completely consensual. so i especially dont want it to be his after that. i just want honest opinions on who you guys think the father is. of course i’d rather it be the guy from the 27th but i need honest opinions

I'm currently 17 weeks pregnant with my first baby and the father is a guy I dated in HS and we been off and on ever since. Well when we hooked up I ended up pregnant we weren't in a relationship during that time. When I found out I was pregnant I told him immediately he didn't seem excited at all when I told him. But then he wanted me to come over to his place the day I told him I was pregnant and told me we are in this together and that he loved me, but when I had my first doctors appointment to have my pregnancy confirmed he told me he didn't want me to keep the baby that he wasn't ready to be a father. Then things got intense between us we started arguing alot more because he was upset that I was keeping the baby he told me things like he didn't love and he doesn't want to marry me. After a month or so he eventually came around and begin to except that I was keeping the baby and that he was going to be a father and he also apologized for his actions. We started get along everything was going great I honestly thought we were getting closer until just a couple days ago he hit me with I have a new girlfriend and this girl knows that I'm pregnant with his kid. I was really upset because now I feel like my family is going to be broken and I have lost him. But I finally realized that I need to be strong for my baby it hard especially this being my first pregnancy. You always thought when your younger that if you got pregnant you imagined that the father was going to be there but sometimes some fairy tales don't end that way.